9 Simple Montessori Practical Life Activities for Toddler Independence

January is the season for New Year's resolutions. As adults, we often vow to eat healthier or exercise more. But for our little ones, the best resolution is a simple one: Independence.

If you have a toddler, you’ve likely heard the phrase (or the scream), "I do it myself!"

While it can test our patience when we're rushing out the door, this desire is a natural and beautiful part of development. Maria Montessori famously said, "Never help a child with a task at which he feels he can succeed."

So, how do we channel this energy?

This year, invite your child to participate in Montessori practical life activities. These aren't just chores; they are meaningful tasks that build concentration, fine motor skills, and confidence. Here are 9 simple Montessori practical life activities you can start at home today.

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Montessori Practical Life Activities in the Kitchen

The kitchen is often the most fascinating room for a toddler. Instead of keeping them out, invite them in safely with the right tools.

1. Slicing Bananas (or Soft Veggies)

This is the classic "first" Montessori kitchen activity. Using a child-safe wooden knife or crinkle cutter, toddlers can easily slice a peeled banana, cucumber, or soft cheese. It’s empowering for them to prepare their own snack!

Why it’s great: It develops fine motor control and hand-eye coordination without the risk of sharp blades.

2. Washing Fruits & Vegetables

Set up a small station at the sink (using a Learning Tower or sturdy stool) or a bowl of water on a low table. Give your child a scrub brush and let them wash apples, potatoes, or carrots.

Why it’s great: It satisfies their love for water play while serving a real purpose.

3. Pouring Drinks

Ditch the sippy cup at mealtime. Start with a small jug containing a very small amount of water and a small glass. Spills will happen (and that’s okay!), but they will quickly master the art of pouring their own drink.

Caring for the Environment: Little Helpers

Toddlers don't see cleaning as "work"—they see it as imitating you!

Browse our Child-Safe Kitchen Tools & Wooden Knives collection here

4. Sweeping the Floor

Have you ever noticed your child trying to grab the big broom? Give them a child-sized broom and dustpan. You can use masking tape to mark a square on the floor and challenge them to sweep all the dust bunnies into the square.

5. Watering Plants

A small watering can is all you need. Teach them how to check if the soil is dry and how to give the plant a "drink." It fosters a sense of empathy and caring for living things.

6. Window Washing

This is a toddler favourite! Give them a spray bottle filled with water (and maybe a drop of vinegar) and a small cloth or squeegee. They will love spraying and wiping, and it’s a fantastic workout for their arm muscles.

Caring for Self: Getting Ready

7. Putting on Shoes (Velcro is King!)

Mornings can be stressful. To help your child succeed, choose shoes with velcro straps. Sit on the floor with them and show them the steps slowly. Creating a designated spot for shoes by the door helps build the routine.

8. Hand Washing

Independence starts with hygiene. Ensure they can reach the tap (using a step stool) and the soap. A bar of soap is often easier for small hands to manipulate than a pump bottle.

9. Brushing Hair

Set up a low mirror and provide a child-sized hairbrush. It allows them to see themselves and practise grooming. It might not be a perfect hairstyle, but the pride on their face will be worth it.

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3 Golden Rules for Parents (Before You Start)

Introducing these skills requires a shift in our mindset more than theirs.

1. Lower Your Expectations: The banana slices might be squashed, and the floor might get wet during plant watering. That is part of the learning process. Focus on their effort, not the perfect result.

2. Prepare the Environment: Ensure tools are the right size for their hands. A heavy adult broom will only frustrate them.

3. Be Patient: It will always be faster for you to put on their shoes. But letting them take 10 minutes to do it themselves is an investment in their future confidence.

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Ready to Empower Your Little Helper?

Practical life activities are the bridge between "playing" and "living." They tell your child: "You are capable, and you are a valuable member of this family."

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